Monday, January 19, 2009

Harper is 3 days old!

We had a very busy day today. This is a collage of pictures of all the people who came to visit us today. We spent another day being completely overwhelmed by the kindness and generosity of both our friends and church members and loved ones and some of you bloggers who have come by to see me. Scott and I spent a long time talking tonight about how the last three days have completely changed our life. Not just because we have had to go through a trial but through it - God has shown us the importance of giving and compassion.
We have been blessed a million times over by the outpouring of love and e-mails and gifts and visits and phone calls and prayers from so many people. But at the same time - Harper is in the NICU with 40 other babies and we see so many families so much less fortunate than us - most of them with no visitors and probably a good portion of those babies have no one to pray over them. We know that we have had over 100,000 visitors to this blog a DAY and people who have their churches, Bible Studies, etc praying for us. Things that just blow our mind. We can't get over the stories we hear of all the people who are praying for our little baby. And we believe with everything in us that she WILL be healed. Because we know that God has the opportunity to show His power and love in that healing. And to NOT answer would be to have the chance to have people lose faith in the power of prayer.
But we want to ask you two things - please pray for all babies who are in NICU's right now and for their families. It's a hard and scary place and the majority of parents probably don't have the hope and faith that we do. Also - we have learned how much it can mean to people just to love on them - give to them, call them, visit them - when they are in a crisis. Scott and I have a huge burden to pay it forward to others when we get Harper home. If Harper being sick makes us love and appreciate others and to spend our life looking for ways to help others - then we are thankful for that and we hope we can encourage you to do the same. You never know when it will be your turn to be on the recieving end. It's extremely humbling.
Update on my girl:
We were able to meet with Harper's doctor today for the first time since she has been there. It was a very good meeting. He gave us a lot of details. It was very difficult for me to sit and listen to him talk about how sick my little baby is. Our families felt it was very positive but it was just scary for me. Basically it is a long and gradual process. They believe she got an infection which has caused the problems with her lungs. They think her heart and brain are both good. Very, very slowly - they are trying to get her off the oxygen that is supporting her lungs. They think ECMO is a final resort. We will most likely be here for weeks. Her numbers seem to improve little by little and we do have a lot of hope. She is critical but stable.
A lot of you ask how I am doing. It's hard. I'm very swollen and in a lot of pain but it's getting better every day. I have a hard time doing the things I should like resting, eating, Pumping on a schedule - because I'm so focused on everything else. I'm trying hard to slow down and focus on what I need to get well so I can be the best mom for Harper I can be.

We love each of you who visit this blog DEARLY!

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Emily said...

What a beautiful mother you make!! Every family that is in the NICU with ya'll is blessed...as is the staff that gets to work with Harper.

Still praying from CMCD ER...

-Emily

Anonymous said...

Kelly, I know the chances of you reading this comment are small, but I felt the need to share. When I first saw news of Harper, it immediately took me to that same place in our life 4 years ago. Our daughter, Lillian Hope was born at 42 weeks and unexpectedly had trouble, was transferred to Texas Children's Hospital to be put on the ECMO and not given much chance of making it. The most brillian doctors still don't know what was wrong but guess I had a mild virus that Lily contracted right before birth and made her very sick. They also don't know why she so quickly improved, but WE know. I know the darkness of these days you are living but the Hope of our God who desires more from our lives than we can ask or think. We felt confident of only one thing during our 2 1/2 weeks, that God will make His Name Great and will reveal himself in those who allow Him access. How privileged you are to allow God to use you to proclaim His name>"Blessed are you among women". 100,000s of people have seen your sadness, trial and FAITH and have heard of the Love of our Father who walks with us. He chose you, Scott and Harper to bless His name. One regret I have during our time is I just endured and did not grab hold of the miracle we witnessed before our eyes. I didn't take enough pictures or journal our thoughts because I was just getting through the days. I pray you will distinctly feel His Hands holding your precious family.

Unknown said...

Hey sweet Kelly! I found your blog through Angie's and it caught my eye early on because of Harper's name! We have actually picked out that name for our next baby :) So I started reading your blog. It broke my heart when I read about all that is going on with her! My heart goes out to you!
We just had our first baby in September. Griffin Andrew was born 8 weeks early and arrived at 3lbs 7oz! He spent 22 days in the NICU so I know EXACTLY what you are going through! It is so hard for a mama to leave her baby!!! Although he didn't have the medical problems sweet Harper is having, we did have to leave him at the hospital and be away from him. I can't imagine what you are going through though with the medical issues though! But having to leave your baby at night, and seeing them hooked up to those machines can break your heart. But isn't is amazing the grace and peace the Lord gives you? I have always believed that He gives the 'peace that passes all understanding', but now I have truly experienced it! His grace is sufficient! I never thought I could make it through what we did, but He gives the strength! And I know you are experiencing that now.
Even though I have never met you, I love you and your family dearly and we are praying for sweet Harper! May God continue to heal her body and use her and you and Scott as amazing testimonies for His glory!!!!!!
Erin Downs
Athens, AL.

Belle said...

Oh, honey. I can't believe what you're going through. God is so working through you. I can hear it in your words so clearly. Harper is incredibly beautiful!
Truly gorgeous. My firstborn had a scary beginning. He's 10yrs now and I can't hardly believe he ever had any problems. You and your family are in my prayers. Blow a kiss to that sweet baby girl from me.
Much love,
Belle

Alicia said...

Kelly, I have been following your blog almost for a week now. I have been praying & praying for you and Harper. I am so glad you had a positive meeting with the dr. Get some rest you will need it!

Prayers from Alabama

Anonymous said...

Kelly,
I just recently found your site. I will keep reading and stay current on Harper's progress. I'm positive the Lord has big plans for her! My son was born Nov. 14th 2007 by emergency c section because I had severe preeclampsia. They needed to take him right away or things weren't looking good for me. He was only 3lbs 3oz and 10 weeks early. They took him to the NICU immediately and monitored his heart, lungs, bowel functions and everything else, so I know what you're going through. 2 lbs and a month and a half later, we got to bring Ethan home on December 29th, 2007. Today he is 14 months old and a healthy 25 lb baby boy. The Lord works miracles Kelly, don't ever give up!

Lea Ann said...

This was very encouraging to me and I hope it is to you too. It is today's verse of the day:

“ Consider it pure joy, my brothers, whenever you face trials of many kinds, because you know that the testing of your faith develops perseverance.” (James 1:2-3)

Praying for complete healing.

Lea Ann, TN

Anonymous said...

I found your blog two days ago, since then I have been praying for you and your family. Harper is a beautiful Baby Girl. Your FAITH is incredible,what a testimon. Keep believing and you'll see that God has great plans for Harper in the future.
I will continue praying for Harper and all the babies at the NICU

Please try to rest, you need to be strong and healthy for when that Baby Girl gets home.

In Jesus Love,
Mari in Florida

kim said...

Kelly,
Nothing but love and prayers for Harper and her Mommy and Daddy. Prayers to our Father on your behalf are the least we can do.

Anonymous said...

Praying - though you don't know me (do you know ALL these people?) I can help you figure out about the pumping and the milk supply etc. That's weird to post in a comment, but true. You can jump over to my spot and comment or email from there. I am a true professional in this field - like really. If I can help you, I will be glad to.

Someone who knows Kelly and has her cell - abt every 2 - 3 hours prompt her gently to eat and drink - calories + fluid.

Courtney said...

Kelly,
We are continuing to pray for you, Scott, and Harper. This morning when I first awoke, God placed this verse on my heart for your family:

Isaiah 41
v. 10 "So do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with my righteous right hand."

v. 13 "For I am the Lord, your God, who takes hold of your right hand and says to you, Do not fear; I will help you."

I will continue to pray today that you each feel God holding your right hand...even Harper. You all are never far from my thoughts. Thanks for keeping us updated so that we know how to pray.

Courtney, Pearland, TX

Hope said...

I'm praying for Harper. Please take care of yourself, Harper will be home before you know it!

Unknown said...

Your family is in my prayers. The name Harper was one of the names we had for our little girl. I love it! Your little girl is beautiful. God is good all the time!

Reid said...

I am sure you have many comments and emails you will never get to read. Hope you read this one. My son was in the NICU for four weeks (he was born 6 weeks early due to complications in his kidney). First, I want to say you are absolutely right that you learn the meaning of pay it forward. He will be 1 in two weeks and to this day I think of every single baby that has to spend any amount of time in the NICU w/out parents with them or at home (especially on holidays). I also send little onsies, socks, and hats that I find (Target is great for this!) that I know will fit them. One of our favorite nurses shared this idea with us (she does it herself).
Secondly, I'm sure you've gotten alot of advice, but I would suggest taking a pen and notepad any time a doc or nurse tells you something. I know it may be difficult, but I would try to have your husband or someone else there when they do talk to you. You'll be thrown so much information and two sets of ears really help!!
I am thinking of you all! You'd be amazed in the power of alot of things....
(HUGS from SC)

Anonymous said...

I just curious..How often after Harper was born did they notice her breathing problems, and also was she born by c-section she looks like a BIG GIRL! =) Thanks and wanted to let you know I will be praying for you and your family!

Anonymous said...

Kelly, I'm sure that hearing from the doctors is hard, but I thank you so much for sharing your story with everyone!!! Keeping up with your blog and seeing how many comments you get a day or vistors that you've never met but that know you through your blog is AMAZING! It's touching and encourages me to just reach out to others. Thank you!!!!

Laura said...

Thank you for updating us all here in Cyberworld as we pray feverently for your little girl to be healed.

It's great to hear you are pumping to get your milk established (and hopefully for the NICU to feed her that). Please ensure you are using a hospital grade pump and are pumping EVERY 3 hours!!! It is vital to do this to get a full supply established. When she comes home, Mommy's milk is one of the best gifts you can give her so you don't want to be battling supply issues at the same time as you are trying to get her onto the breast. There is a great website that I wanted to pass along which is http://www.kellymom.com - packed full of great breastfeeding info.

You are in my prayers as are the other little NICU babies.

Emily said...

Stay strong Kelly! We are continuing to send our prayers to God for and Harper and your husband! St. Francis will take extra special care of your precious lil girl! Is there a Tulsa address where we can send stuff to you guys??

Danielle said...

You all remain in our CONSTANT prayers. Stay stong and lean on our prayers. When you are too tired or weak to pray know that there are THOUSANDS lifting you up. We praise God for the improvements Harper is already showing. She is absolutely beautiful just like her mommy. God bless you all.....

The Charm House said...

Thank you for the update Kelly!! Still thinking and Praying for ALL of you!

Kim said...

Hi Kelly! For some reason I haven't been able to log in to make a comment lately. But, I(and my husband) have been praying for sweet little Harper since Friday. We will continue to pray for her!!

The Hickmans said...

We are still praying, Kelly! I noticed that your name tag says, 'Parent'. Even under the circumstances, doesn't that sound so awesome!? You are encouraging, inspiring, and lifting up so many people through your testimony- keep it up! God is being glorified and you will be blessed!

Susan said...

Praying for your sweet baby, Harper here in Tennessee! Prayer does work!

Anonymous said...

Hi Kelly,

So glad to read your positive update! While checking for updates yesterday, my three year old, Grace, saw Harper's picture on the screen and commented on how cute she was. She was also in the NICU and you are so right that it can be a scary place, but God is holding your hand the whole time! Grace joined me in prayer for Harper's healing. Later, when saying her bedtime prayers she said we had to pray again to make baby Harper better. Thought it would make you smile to know that even little children are praying for your precious Harper!

Love and blessings to you again from NC!

Wendy

Brooke said...

You and your family and sweet baby are in our prayers. What a strong support system you have.

---Brooke in Utah

Anonymous said...

We are praying and believing with you for Harper's complete healing! What a beautiful testimony of God's goodness!

Amy said...

This is my first time to comment, I came across your blog from Boomama and Angie.

I am praying for your sweet girl and your family. I will also pray from the other babies in the NICU.

Take care of yourself!

Peace be with you, God Bless!

Amy C

Bridget said...

thank you for updating us even with all you have going on. Our whole family is praying for your family!

Beth said...

Kelly, I am so happy that Harper is stable and is getting better every day. She is BEAUTIFUL! Know that I am praying for her and you and will add the other NICU babies to my prayers.

Rest, Pump and hang in there mama!

Anonymous said...

I'm praying for you and your sweet Harper. She is gorgeous! I always used my pumping time as a prayer and praise time, so I could do two important things at once :)

Julie said...

I'm so happy to hear that Harper is doing better. You are such an encouragement to all of us and I'm so glad right now you are surrounding by encouragement. I think it's awesome that you guys are reaching out to the other parents in the NICU. God has a purpose for everything. I know he will bring Harper home to you soon. Praying in TN.

Amy said...

Harper is so beautiful...continuing to pray that she gets stronger and healthier everyday.

The Fabulous Side of Me said...

So glad to hear a positive update - Praise the Lord! Harper is so beautiful. I just want to reach through the computer screen and picture and hug you and hold her (as I am SURE YOU DO!). Keep strong. Good is an awesome God.

morgan823 said...

This is my first comment and I'm sure you have a ton to read, I just wanted you to know that we are praying for Harper! She is beautiful by the way! I've been reading your blog for a long time now and never commented but decided I would after seeing your pictures. I'm from Alabama and have a few other friends here that I've shared your blog with and we are all praying for you and your family. God bless you!

Jill Sloothaak said...

Kelly,
Still praying for strength and peace as you face each new day! Isn't it amazing how God so generously grants us the energy we need in times like this?? It just couldn't come from anywhere but HIM! So glad that you are being loved on and upheld by so many!

Jill
Zeeland, MI

Kaleena said...

I am keeping your family in my thoughts and prayers. I also have everyone I know praying as well. I know that you WILL bring a HEALTHY Harper home. There's no denying the power of prayer!

Stacie said...

i have been saying prayers for your healing, kelly, as well as harper's. i am a former nicu nurse and current mother/baby nurse. it is very important for you to drink drink drink- water, juices... it will help you get rid of your excess fluid. sounds weird, but it will. it will help your milk supply, which will also be helped with getting on a good pumping schedule. if you want to have a good milk supply, then pumping is very important. i know it probably isn't what you want to do every 3 hours, but it will be great for harper when she starts to feeds to have lots of good breast milk waiting for her. :)

Rachel said...

Yall never cease to amaze me!! We will continue to pray for you and your family, but will add your requests as well =)! BTW - You look great and know that you are already doing so much for her!!

Sassy Engineer said...

I will definitely be praying for you and your darling baby and all of the other babies and families in the NICU. I pray that God comfort you all and heal the precious children.

RR Mama said...

Praying Praying Praying! While I know it's hard you do need to take care of yourself too. Please do that. Harper will you at your best when she comes home. Remeber always...God is good all the time, All the time God is good. He will bless you both!

Thomas and Jamie said...

Kelly, we ARE praying for you and sweet Harper! FERVENTLY PRAYING! We KNOW God is good and we can't wait for the day to look back on this and say Remember When our God showed us AGAIN how good HE is???

Praying in Canyon, Tx
Jamie Allen

Anonymous said...

Kelly, I am still praying for Harper and you and your family! I pray you feel the strength of the Father's arms around you and Harper! I am so glad so many people are loving on you guys!
Love you!
Jennifer

Shannon said...

Scott, Kelly & Harper,
I found your blog back in the summer, and have followed it ever since. I have been praying for you. Please stay strong and continue your wonderful faith.
Shannon

Debbie said...

Glad to hear the good news!! We will keep praying!!!

Debbie

lesley said...

I think she looks like you.

Anonymous said...

Kelly ~ I just was told about your blog and have spent the morning reading most of your posts. I am praying for you, your husband and your beautiful baby girl Harper. I went thru the same infertility for 4 yrs, and then was blessed with a sweet little boy named Cade who is now 7. I was also blessed with a another little boy 27 months later named Aiden. Aiden also had to be in the NICU when he was born. He was only there for 6 days, but those are hard trying times. He is a beautiful healthy 4 yr old. We are blessed by him every day. You would never know by looking at him that he had to see a pediatric cardiologist for the 1st 6mths of his life.
You are in my prayers, and I will check faithfully for updates on sweet Harper. God Bless you Kelly!!

Nina

MatersandMelons said...

Thanks for the update! I am praying for you, Scott, Harper, and all other families with babies in NICU right now. I can't imagine how scary that is, but I can see that your faith will get you through this!

Mama's the Boss said...

I am glad you keep getting good news about Harper. She is such a little blessing.
Please take care of yourself too.

Rachel Dominguez said...

I will continue praying every day for baby Harper. I will also place her button on my blog sometime today to have all my readers pray for her and also Brayden.

Stay strong...

RAchel

MJ @ 517 Creations said...

Hi Kelly - I just started reading your blog a few weeks ago. Our baby boy, Grayson, was in the NICU just over 13 months ago when he was born. Both of his lungs collapsed shortly after he was born. But, God worked a miracle and he fully recovered after a few days. Our Lord is a God of miracles! We are praying for a miracle for Harper - and that through her life, God's name will be glorified and the good news spread! Hang in there and stay strong!

Anonymous said...

Praise the Lord for the progress that Harper is making. We are still praying for her complete recovery. I so admire your willingness to use this time to be a blessing to so many people.

"Praise be to the God of all comfort who comforts us in all our troubles, so that we can comfort those in any trouble with the comfort we ourselves have received from God." II Corinthians 1:4

I am confident that He is and will continue to use this time for you to make a difference in others' lives.

Carissa in Tennessee

Anonymous said...

So glad that Miss Harper is stable and holding her on. You look GREAT! Not at all like you had a baby just a few short days ago. Prayers and blessings for today. Be back tomorrow to check in again. J

Michelle Whitlow said...

So glad to hear Harper is doing well, even if it is such a slow process. Your family is beautiful. Stay strong and keep thinking of the day that you will all be home together!!

Anonymous said...

Kelly and Scott,

First of all, I am praying for you, and baby Harper. I cannot even imagine what you're going through! Stay strong for your girl, and take care of yourselves so you can be there and be healthy for her!! Secondly, never forget that Harper is in the best hands she can possibly be in. All of the wonderful doctors surrounding her are doing their best to do what is needed to get her little body healthy. But, God is mightier and greater than all of those doctors combined. Keep your focus on Him because He has your girl safe in His hands. He has already made His plans for precious Harper, and He knows exactly what is going on with her. I love the verse Jeremiah 29:11, and read it often when I am having a rough time. God knows what Harper needs to get better, and He is the ultimate healer. I am continuing to pray for you all every single day, and I check your blog periodically throughout the day, too! God bless you!

Much Love,
Brianne

Mary said...

You are such a wonderful mommy. Your faith truely is amazing. We are still praying..Harper is so beautiful, just like her parents!
-Mary

Tricia said...

I am praying for you and your precious daughter... I can not imagine what you are going through. I had twins that were 8 weeks early, so I expected them to be in the hospital for a bit, but to have newborn and to be caught by surprise that something is wrong... I can't imagine, but I am praying. I also have a prayer blog just for prayer and have added your info to my site, I hope you do not mind.

Blessings!

Holly said...

Still praying. Isaiah 40:31 has always been encouring to me: "They that wait on the Lord shall renew their strength. They shall mount up with wings as eagles. They shall run and not be weary. They shall walk and not faint." My girls (7 and 5 years old) and I will be praying for you until Harper comes home.

Laura said...

What a beautiful daughter! I am so touched by your deep faith in God and your dedication to Harper. Sending up prayers for her healing, your health and for all NICU babies and their families. Peace be with you.

Allisyn said...

Hi Kelly, I found your blog a couple days ago and I want you to know that I keep Harper and you and your family in my prayers. Harper is beautiful baby...

Jennifer said...

I am still praying for Harper and you. Everytime I think about Harper I say a special prayer for you that God will take care of your health so that you will recover quickly to be there for Harper.

HIS Child said...

Kelly,

My son and I are so blessed to pray for you, Scott and precious girl Harper. Rob is twelve and he asked me about a prayer request I have in my car. I printed a picture of Harper and the verse we are praying for her off of Angie's blog. It was so wonderful to share your story and have our boy pray with me. You are touching so many and I pray that the Lord's peace, grace and His Mighty presence will be felt as a constant companion. He loves you so much.
We will continue to lift all the babies in NICU up.
Much love,
Celeste

julie & joe said...

Kelly, you Scott and Harper are in our prayers. Please make sure that you take care of yourself so you are ready for Harper when she gets to come home.

Lauren said...

Kelly - my name is Lauren Land and I am one of the alumni directors here at Ouachita. I began praying for Harpe several days ago when I heard your story via a friend from MS's blog. I've since heard so much about you through various blogs and Facebook and JUST found out you are a member of the OBU family!! I want you to know how many here at Ouachita are in prayer for you and your family - we pray for her strength, as well as you and your husband's, and for constant renewal from your friends and family. Much love to you all!!

SECPumpkin said...

hi kelly! You don't know me, but I've read your blog for awhile. I always love your creative ideas and cute monogrammed dresses(which i know harper will love)! : ) My husband and I are praying for your little girl and the other babies that are her neighbors right now. What a blessing you are to them, for I'm sure many of them need the hope of the gospel of Jesus our KING! We know your little girl is in good hands as the Lord is the GREAT PHYSICIAN. Thanks for the updates so we can better pray!

Clark Family said...

Thank you Kelly for the updates. I have to say I ran home from work today not to watch the Presidents Speech but to check on your little girl. She is continually in my prayers and I know in my heart God will heal her little body and make her all better. You are an amazing mommy take care of yourself.

Love from Michigan!

Lissa said...

I've been praying for all of you during this time!

Rebecca Jo said...

Bless your heart Kelly... as much as you are going through - you take the time to smile with each person... what a strong woman you are!!!!

Surrounding you, Harper & all those babies with Angel's wings of protection!

Anonymous said...

Kelly Sweetheart,

Thank you for sharing the wonderful news. It sounds like Harper is indeed making progress. Your entire family is in our prayers.

Kelly, please try to take care of yourself and get some rest. I pray that with each good report, you are able to relax and that your own body is able to heal. This has been a grueling several days for all of you.

We have our three sons praying for your family. Baby Harper is so special. God knows it! I feel such a togetherness in our prayers for this little angel. Thank you Jesus!

Sending warm hugs and lots of prayers from Virginia Beach, VA.

Love,
The Duffy Family Margaret and Len

Twins Ryan (22 in college), Sean (22 in college) and Evan (19 in college). Three big boys praying for sweet Harper!

Anonymous said...

Still praying from Virginia for Harper's complete healing and that God would receive all the glory!

asplashofsunshine said...

Maybe this is a silly question. Have you been able to hold her and snuggle at all? She is absolutely precious, although I know you have already thought of much more descriptive words for her. I'll bet you can not wait to kiss her all day and all night. Give those little toes kisses all the way from California!

d.a.r. said...

So sweet to see you with your baby!! Many prayers for healing, strength and God's grace as you guys navigate these rough waters.

Anonymous said...

I am praying for your sweet little girl. By the way, she looks JUST like her momma!!! I love your blog. We are praying so hard that Harper is home where she belongs very soon.

iheartbowheads.blogspot.com said...

Is there anyway that you can get us names to pray specifically for? Either way - I just added NICU babies to my prayer list along with Harper of course. Could we maybe put together care packages?

Anonymous said...

I am praying everyday for Harper and I have great faith that everything will be okay.

Sit A Spell said...

Prayin' for yall. I grew up in AR...saw the Go Hogs : )

McMemo said...

Sending our love and constant prayers.
M.

Country Chick said...

I am praying for your little girl and you and your family... stay strong and all of you will be well again soon. Janine

Anonymous said...

Harper continues to be in our thoughts and prayers...as well as you and Scott. We pray for you at night time with our twin 4 year olds...and they just know every night to pray for Harper. (its so sweet!) And I will absolutely add all those who need our prayers. My one was in the NICU also..and you are so right...it is such a scary place.

Harper is just beautiful!! I look so forward to her recovery and seeing her in all of her beautiful clothing!!

Anonymous said...

Hi Kelly,
You don't know me, but I feel like I know you! I love reading your blog. I came accross it through other blogs I read and I am super glad I found you. I have been following your updates on your precious little girl. I have had her and you on my mind for days. Your faith is to be commended and you are really an inspiration to me. Harper is one of the most beautiful newborn's I have ever seen! I will continue to pray for her and your whole family. I will also do as you suggest and pray for all those other little sick babies who may not have anyone to pray over them as well.
Love, Lesleigh from Texas

Christina said...

I just wanted to stop by and let you know that, although I had never read your blog until baby Harper was born, I am a faithful follower now. I have been praying and will continue to keep Harper and your family (and all those other precious babies) in my prayers.

And by the way, Harper is gorgeous! Take care of yourself, Mom!

In Christ,
Christina in Indiana

thechapmanfamily said...

We had a moment too when our little boy was born a year and a half ago. Keep your faith, allow God to be in control and He will show you His glory.

I will be in prayer for you.

Carrie said...

Take care of yourself!!! Thanks for the updates! Praise God for another good day!

Kari said...

Kelly,

Praise God is SO RIGHT!! Wow, amazing news. Harper is a sweet little thing. We are praying here in Springfield, MO. My husband is the head student pastor of a big church here in Springfield and we have sent an e-mail around to the staff. Know that prayers are being prayed. I can't wait to see you hold your darling daughter.

Love,
Kari
Springfield, MO

blueladybug said...

I know you don't know me & I've only been reading your blog since Saturday, but I feel connected to you and your family. I'm praying for your Harper and all the little babies in NICU! Please take care of yourself, too. I know it's hard, but get an extra hour of sleep each night. I look forward to your updates. Take Care!
Pam

Anonymous said...

Dear Stamp family

Found your blog through another, prayers are powerful! God Bless you and your family.

Harper is beautiful!

With love,

Marie

Tessa said...

glad to hear she is doing alittle better, you are right she will be healed and don't think anything different

Brianna said...

I just found your blog through a friend and just wanted to send you a little encouragment! I am sure you will have time to read this anytime soon but I hope it is a blessing.

My second child's early weeks of life has a very similiar story to it. He was born full term and large and totally unexpected to us rushed to the NICU because of lung problems. He too had developed an infection and had serious pnemonia. My husband and I are in the ministry and sweet Cooper was thankfuly covered in prayer continually. It was a rough couple of weeks as he was on a high frequency ventilator for two weeks on full oxygen (he actually holds the record at the hosptial we were at). Our medical team was wonderful but were frustrated at lack of improval. Finally at 13 days he showed signs of improvement and they were able to slowly reduce his oxygen need. Miraculously he was totally off oxygen a little over 24 hours after that.

Even more miraculously he went home 2 days later with absolutley no meds and problems. He went from the verge of death to a healthy boy at him and just over 2 weeks, the doctors just couldn't find a reason to keep him there! He is now a very healthy 3 1/2 year old (acutally gets sick less than my other 3 kids!)

We are praying for Harper and know that God's grace IS sufficient and his power is endless.

Also, we live in Fort Worth now but I grew up in Tulsa and know first hand how amazing Saint Francis is!

Brianna

Pam said...

I'm so happy to see you right there next to your sweet baby girl! We're still praying that God's plan will soon be revealed and that you get to take Harper home as quick as possible.

LMP said...

I so vividly remember my sons first 5 days of life in the NICU. It is scary and overwhelming and exhausting and just plain hard. Harper is going to get through this and these will just be a memory. You have so many people praying for you...including me! Take it easy on yourself...you need to heal too.

Ashley said...

Stamps Family,
I've prayed more than I ever have lately always about Harper, then I find myself praying for everything lately. I have missed praying for so many years now and praying for Harper helped to remind me to pray for my family, your family, all babies and just everything. Thank YOU for blessing me! I will continue to pray and I will pray for those little babies in every NICU around the world. I just KNOW God will heal Harper. I can't wait to see her grow on your blog and hear all the wonderful stories that come with all little babies and kids.
Thinking and praying for you constantly,
Ashley (Georgia)

Melissa said...

I saw you on my cousin Laura's blog asking for prayers and immediately clicked on to find out exactly what to pray for. Harper, Scott, you and your family are all in our prayers right now. I am expecting twins in March and the thought of spending time in the NICU is on our minds every day. I have completely put our precious Brynlee and Chance in God's hands and I know that you have handed Harper over to Him as well. That is the best thing that you can do and I am rejoicing that you and Scott have such faith in God. Who survives anything of this nature without Faith? Please keep us updated and I will send your blog on to my other friends to get them praying.

In Christ's Love,
The Foreys

Anonymous said...

Dear Kelly,

I found your blog through a friend of mine today, and I wanted to let you know that I too am praying for you, your husband, and little Harper. Your pictures of her are so precious, and I look forward to seeing many more in the future. God is faithful, my sister.

Love in Christ,
Sarah Wingard

Megan Smith said...

Harper Baby! We are praying, praying, praying for your recovery. I know that God loves you more than any of us can ever imagine and I pray that He lets your Mama and Daddy love you here, with them, for a long time to come!

Mab said...

Love hearing all the positive updates. I know you are so blessed and loved!!!!
Harper is just covered in love and prayers by sooooooooo many!
Arlene

Kelli said...

You are going to raise a generous and compassionate little girl. She will be so floored by all the people praying for her and who offered a helping hand to her mama and daddy! Keep taking care of yourself too!

Keli

Anonymous said...

I cried my eyes out knowing just how you feel. We've had two babies sick in the NICU, and it was the scariest thing for us. At the smae time, it's humbling and wonderful to feel the Lord's arms wrapped around you in a way you never knew possible. His Strength is made perfect in our weaknesses. How beautiful that our God is choosing to use Harper for His glory already! May you feel peace and sweet Jesus's presence around you and Harper today. Love, Jess

Anonymous said...

Praying for you over here in Scotland. Be sure to take care of yourself so you can take care of her. Big hugs and many, many prayers.

Ribbonwood Cottage said...

God has a wonderful plan for Harper, you and your husband and family. Look at all these wonderful people praying and seeking God. That is so amazing. We are in this with you!
Blessings,
Debbie

Anonymous said...

Kelly...I'm praying often for your family, Harper, and those in the NICU.

Thank you for the update and picture of you and Harper. You both look beautiful!

Cindy
Texas

Maggii said...

I'm glad to hear Harper seems to be improving and I'm praying that recovery will be quidk and that she wont need any more intervention. This all brings me back to when my second child was born and we had a similar scare.He had trouble breathing soon after his birth. They thought it might be pneumonia but turned out to jsut be amniotic fluid that didn't get expelled at the birth. He was in NICU for 5 days. Things worked out and he is now 23! I pray that you'll be bringing Harper home soon as well.

Kate said...

Kelly,
God bless you and Harper. I'm praying for your baby's heath and for your constitution during this difficult time. My son spent 4 long, hard weeks in the NICU--it was, as you said, a most humbling and life-changing experience. We came through it with more gratitude and more respect for the sanctity of life than we ever could have before the experience. I am pryaing nd thinking about you frequently. Hang in there--keep your eyes and trust in the Lord and He will take you through this. I'm praying that He leads the hearts, minds and hands of every doctor and nurse that touches your baby.

Anonymous said...

Take care of yourself and you will be able to take care of Harper. My youngest daughter (who is now 13!) was in NICU for 3 months. It is a scary place but those nurses and doctors are committed to doing everything for their precious patients. I am praying for you-all. God is doing a good work thru your faith and Harper. Thank you for sharing with us. PS Yes, keep pumping and freeze the extra milk (the NICU probably has a freezer just for this)
Amy in NC

The Mama said...

Each night, when I check in on my three girls and feel the one inside me kick, I thank God for the blessings they are- health and all. And then, I pray for all of the babies who are sick- all ages and all conditions. Your little girl and her NICU friends have been and will always continue to be in those prayers. God bless. She is in good hands!

Billie said...

Looks like the perfect Momma for that baby girl getting to touch her miracle! Believing God!

Tasha said...

My 21 month old and I just prayed for Harper, your family, and all the other babies in the NICU. He was sooo sweet when I showed him Harper's picture and asked if he would like to pray for her. He put his hands together and waited patiently for me to pray. We just wanted you to know that we are praying for you and your family. God is good.

Bryan & Sarah said...

I am a children's minister in Dallas, TX... the kids in church prayer for Harper Sunday and will again Wednesday night. My husband and I recently lost a baby and my heart breaks for you and your family. Harper is in our prayers and our thoughts here in Dallas, TX.

Adventures on the Farm said...

Thank you for the updates....stay strong and remember faith prevails. Harper is not only a beautiful little girl but she has the world rooting for her. ANd remember take care of yourself becaue before long you will be using lots of energy keeping up with that sweet baby. Love from Texas!!!

Anonymous said...

Slowly, surely, the prayers are being answered. That Harper is stable, is very good news!! We continue to hold your family and your baby girl up in prayer in Lake Saint Louis, MO.

Shannon said...

I read your dad's blog and saw how much Harper weighed. What a big girl. And she is very beautiful! Bless you and your family!
-Shannon in Austin, Texas
PS: I was a nicu parent after my twins were born. Although you are focused on Harper please let people help take care of you too. And I love that you have your blog. What a gift/journal that Harper will look back on.

Whitney said...

Sending lots of prayers your way. My triplets spent 4 weeks in the NICU and I know it can be a very difficult ride. I am hoping your journey is quick and Harper comes home soon.

Rachie said...

I am so sorry you are experiencing this. My twins were in the NICU for 4 weeks. We were told our little boy would not make it. He was on a breathing machine, tubes, and at one point had a pic line to his heart. Just like you, I remember my Heavenly Father's love during that trial. My twins are now healhty 3 year olds. I am sure Harper will be fine. I will pray for her and your family.

God Bless!

Anonymous said...

It's so nice to see you so HAPPY with your new baby girl! I am still praying for you, Harper, Scott, the Martins, the Stamps, and now all the NICU babies that are in God's huge, capable hands.

Jacey

Anonymous said...

Dear Kelly,
Harper, you and Scott have been on my mind all day. I know God has laid you on my heart all day so that I may pray for you. He cares so much about your circumstance and your future that He continues to touch others hearts in their often overwhelmingly busy days to pray for you. This morning several times, I have been in nursing school classes (to prepare for the NICU, actually!!) in the middle of a deep thought...and God speaks. When He speaks, it doesn't matter what is going on..we as Christians are called to listen and respond. I know God is working in people to keep you covered with a blanket of prayer. I am heading to work, but will continue to pray for you. I am praying God will bless you now with a deep comfort and peace beyond all understanding.

Listen to this song and may it bring you comfort.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GFkY5-Xp710

In Jesus mighty name,

Amber

Krystal said...

We love you sweet friends! We are thrilled to hear that Harper is getting better! Thank you Lord! We will continue to pray for you to be strong and take care of yourself! Pumping is so worth it! Keep it up!

Anonymous said...

I found your blog through several other blogs that I read. You are a wonderful person with an amazing faith in God. He always comes through. Prayers and best wishes for you and your family. Brandy in Utah.

Betty said...

Kelly I found your blog a couple months ago and have been following you ever since. I now know that the reason that I found your blog was so I can pray for you and your family. Your faith is just amazing to me. I have added you to my church prayer list and also to my own blog. I have two children of my own and I know how much you love your little girl but just remember that as much as you love Harper God loves his children so much more!!! I will be praying for you and your family!!!

Kristina said...

The first thing I do when I get to work is check on your sweet baby girl!! What a precious little chunk you have...she's beautiful! We are praying for her and for all of her support family!!! I can't wait for you to get her home and dressed in those bows and monogrammed outfits!!!

harris1013 said...

I AM ACTUALLY A FRIEND OF KACY WELLS. I LIVE IN BENTON AND I WANT YOU TO KNOW THAT ALL OF MY BLOGGING FRIENDS AND ALL OF OUR FRIENDS ARE PRAYING FOR HARPER AND YOUR FAMILY. JEREMIAH 29:11 "FOR I KNOW THE PLANS I HAVE FOR YOU DECLARES THE LORD..." KEEP YOUR CHIN UP AND KNOW THAT YOU ARE COVERED IN PRAYER FROM ONE MOM TO ANOTHER...

3 Peanuts said...

Kelly,

I am so thrilled to hear that Harper is improving and that although it will be a log and arduous road that her prognosis is good. I am going to Beth Moore's Bible Study tonight in Houston and I will pray for Harper and if there is an opportunity...I will ask others to do the same. Whenever 2 or more are gathered in
His name.....

PLEASE try to take care of your self. I have had a child in the ICU and I know how hard it is for Mom to take care of herself but the last thing you need is to get sick. God will take care of you all.

Kim

Makeuprtista said...

I have had a baby in the NICU, and the staff there was amazing! God's special people, to be sure. I know it's hard to sit and wait, and not to be able to hold and feed your baby. It's agonizing. You are so fortunate to have the love, prayers and support of so many people. God is using your experience in a mighty way. I will continue to pray for Harper and for you and your husband. Please continue to keep the faith and take care of yourself.

Michelle said...

Just wanted to let you know that there are mommies in College Station, Texas, praying for you and your angelic daughter.

Unknown said...

So thrilled to hear that your little Harper is improving!! God is so good! I am continuing to pray for complete healing. Take care!

heidi said...

Praying for sweet baby Harper!! She is beautiful & we know God is watching over her!!! Praying for a full recovery!

Tennille said...

Kelly,

I know what you are going through and it's hard! My child was born 8 weeks early at 3 pounds and 11 ounces. It's amazing how things like this will bring you and your husband closer and at the same time, help restore your faith in people in gerenal. I am praying for you all and hope that little Harper gets better. As you will learn, they really do get stronger and better day by day and hour by hour.
GOD is SOO GOOD!

pinkmommy said...

I think we all would like to hope that our faith would stay strong in the midst of a terrible circumstance and we would be able to praise Him in the storm. Scott, you and the rest of your family have set the bar high for how to do just that.

Praising God for small improvements and still praying.

Kecia said...

Hi, Meredith asked me to pray for y'all, and I will. I too had my first baby, a girl, in January after more than 2 years of trying to conceive, and that baby is turning 11 next week! I pray that you'll be saying that about Harper and won't believe how quickly it went by, that she'll be so healthy and strong this will all seem like a dream.
God's blessings from a fellow OBU alum ('89)
Kecia Sandusky

A Texas Gal said...

Love and prayers from Texas!

Kristin said...

Hi Kelly!
I am a Sunday and clicked on your blog via Angie's! I am moved by your circumstances, as my firstborn spent 35 days in the NICU when he was born @ 31 weeks. Anyway...just wanted to pass on a few things that helped me when I was there in the NICU with our son...first, if you haven't already, purchase a simple spiral notebook (along with a pen) and take it with you everywhere you go. Home..hospital..car. You can use it to log questions you have for your doctors, updates that the nurses and doctors provide regarding procedures, test results, status, etc (I could NEVER keep track and remember what they told me unless I wrote it down!) and you can also use the it to journal your thoughts for Harper. It was a sweet outlet to share my deepest concerns, prayers and thoughts. I often wrote directly to Luke, our son. From my mommy heart to his. I still have mine from Luke's NICU days (he's 4 now) and it is a precious, bittersweet memory keeper for me!
Secondly, pumping. (Let me just tell you, I had to pump exclusively for MONTHS and if I never have to see another pump again, I will be a happy woman!) Anyway...I am so proud of you for pumping! It's no easy task!! To remember when to pump, get yourself a simple digital watch with a timer you can set repeatedly for every 2 or 3 hours (or whatever length you are pumping at). That way, it takes the guessing out of when you pumped last....just rely on the watch to tell you.
Know that you and your family are covered in prayer and that when you cannot be there with Harper, our Lord is cradling her and loving her each and every minute!
Blessings and prayers coming your way from California!
Kristin McLaughlin

Emily said...

She is absolutely precious. I am praying for Harper and all of you. I have a 2 year old precious little girl and cannot imagine what you are going through. We always just pray for a healthy baby and try not to think of anything bad happening..just know that this Mississippi girl is praying for you.

The Four Feathers said...

Thank you for opening up your life, praying for you and for precious Harper...what a gorgeous blessing that was knit together right inside of you. She certainly is fearfully and WONDERFULLY made. I look forward to seeing her progress.

Anonymous said...

I saw your button on another blog. Your baby girl is beautiful! Please know that you are all in my prayers.

Anonymous said...

Praying everyday for you and your precious girl!

Claire said...

One quote I love, but I can't remember where its from:

The best thing you can do for a child is to take care of its mother.

So, Kelly, take care of YOU! Harper needs you to be healthy and rested and strong! I know its hard with her so ill, but it is so very important for you to rest and eat and pump etc.

It's a wonderful feeling to help others out. I hope to see Harper's full recovery and you and Scott 'paying it forward' in love to others.

Wish I could do more but..

Praying for Harper,
Claire

Latharia said...

I will keep all of the babies in my thoughts & prayers!

Heather K said...

Hi Kelly I've posted your prayer request on my blog....I'm so glad that Harper is in HIS hands...the safest place she could be! It's wonderful to hear of her expected progress! I checked your dad's blog and found a good report yesterday.
Don't forget to take care of YOU! Cuz if you don't take care of you, you won't be able to take care of anyone!
God bless dear sister.
Heather
=)

Kim H. said...

I'm so glad that the news is positive, and that everyday Harper gets a little bit better.

Please do take care of yourself, because she needs you to be in the best shape to care for her and watch over all the medical people taking care of her right now.

AKat said...

we're still praying for beautiful baby harper!

Anonymous said...

Praying for you, your husband and that precious little Angel!

Anonymous said...

Harper is beautiful. We are praying for you in Greenville, SC. Thank you for sharing your story -- you are an encouragement to me.
Many hugs and kisses for that sweet baby!

Farmchick said...

Dear Kelly, Scott and Harper~~ it seems strange that I only found your blog just a few short days ago and I don't even know you but yet I feel that I am being called to check on Harper's progress and to pray for you all. Little Harper is beautiful..may God bless you as you travel this difficult road. I pray for the day that you are able to take Harper home and be there together as a family. Being a Mom is so, so special...you need to take care of yourself too. I know, it's hard...Mom's always put their children first...but you still have to try!
Tania in North Dakota

Anonymous said...

Kelly,

It is so good to hear that your little baby girl is doing a little bit better! Hopefully, she will get healthier & stronger everyday.
My thoughts are with you & baby Harper. BTW, I just love her name!
Stay strong, she needs you!

Stephanie said...

Hi, Kelly! My name is Stephanie, and my sister-in-law Lindsay passed the link to your blog on to me through her blog not2us.net/blog. She found it randomly...how cool is that? Lindsay knows very much what you are going through as both her babies had an extended NICU stay, and she has made it her mission to pay it forward as you have indicated you would like to do by praying for those who have sick babies too. I very clearly recall her saying how sad it was to see the lonely babies in NICU. I am 19 weeks pregnant and continue to be humbled by God's sovereignty during this time. It's so tempting to worry, but I know this baby is in His hands. Thank you for sharing your thoughts and struggles. I will continue to read and pray for Harper and all your family.

Stephanie

Anonymous said...

Harper,

Hi! My name is Logan and my mommy reads your mommy's blog. My family is praying for you and your family because I know what it is like to be in the NICU and to struggle to breath. But guess what? Now I am 13 months old and as strong as any other toddler. Today, I was kicking a soccer ball around the park!

Everyday it will get easier to breath and you will grow bigger and stronger. There will be tough days ahead, but they will be followed by giggles, halloween costumes and birthday parties. There are so many awesome things ahead for you so hang in there!

Your new friend, Logan

Anonymous said...

Just want you to know you have another reader praying for you!

Anonymous said...

Hello Kelly,
What a beautiful name Harper is!!

She looks just like a precious doll from your pics.

I found your blog thru Bring the Rain.

I know the pain of having a little bubba in NCIU. We were in their with our baby girl too.


What a beautiful daughter you have!

Arnica is a great thing to be taking in either tablet or oral spray, it will help with any bruising and swelling for you and pass thru your liquid gold breastmilk to Harper.

Camomile tea is also a great thing to drink, it helps to keep up breastmilk supply and soothe and calm both mother and baby.

I know you are going thru such a rough time at the moment and I am praying for God to hold you close to his heart!

God is good. He is loving and merciful. He is good all the time! No matter what we see, He sees the bigger picture. May you know his truths and his heart at this time.

Luv DJ

Lindsey said...

Thanks for the update. We continue to hold you close in prayer. That picture of you and precious Harper is priceless! Keep up the pumping! It is so worth it. I claim that one day soon you will be taking that sweet Harper home to all her cute little monogrammed outfits!:) Sending you love and hugs!

Mere Jo said...

Prayers to you and Scott, and most definitely to Miss Harper! I couldn't believe what I was reading when I got to work yesterday. I had checked the blog on Friday and everything was going along so nice and smooth. Take care of yourself!

Natalie@Endless Crafting said...

Your strength is a inspiration to me and so many others. Thank you for your faith and for sharing it with so many. I am praying for your family and for all of those in need at this time whatever it may be that you and they will have the comfort of our dear Savior. I can't stop thinking of your little one.

Sharon said...

Harper is on our church's prayer roll here in Florida!! This little one is already reaching across state lines to unite prayer warriors!! :) God bless her and your family!!

Tonkamom said...

Praying for your beautiful baby girl, and for your health also!!

Anonymous said...

I'm praying for all of you, and especially for your sweet Harper.

Tara Bennett said...

I am definitely praying for all NICU families.

I run a special needs website and I have several people who have shared very positive stories about ECMO saving their little one's lives. Have faith! It works!

Laski said...

It says so much about your heart that you are thinking of others in your own time of need.

Of course, prayers will go out to the other families. And, they continue to be with you and your family as well.

God bless . . .

tam7777 said...

I had twins--which came at 29 wks. and they were in nicu for 3 months. So I know exactly what you are going through I stayed at ronald mcdonald house for 2 wks after they were born. I had a c-section on top of that. My kids are 19 now. My girl is in college on the deans list and my son is working for right now. God is faithful and he will see you through. When you feel like your all alone just know that God is right beside you. Tammy

Q, La, and Gooner said...

oh, I just can't wait for her to be healthy! My continued prayers to you!

Courtney said...

I'm not sure how I found your blog, but I've been praying for you and Harper- I kept waking up all night that first night and prayed. I read back over your blog to get some background on that cute baby. I feel like I know you already!
Many Blessings,
Courtney

Ash and Toby said...

Thank you for the update! I am tickled that Harper seems to be improving!! Will continue to pray for you and your family and the other families in the NICU! We all should try and visit some of the families in our local hospital nicu. It's like you said, some of them may not have the family, friend and faith that they need to help them get through this time in their lives. How anyone could go through something as trying as that and not have faith in our Lord. Maybe this can help with our testimonies!

Keep strong and try to get some rest!! We all LOVE your little family!!

Ashleigh

Anonymous said...

"And we believe with everything in us that she WILL be healed. Because we know that God has the opportunity to show His power and love in that healing. And to NOT answer would be to have the chance to have people lose faith in the power of prayer."

as someone whose babies were prayed over by thousands and *still* died, i find this statement rather appalling. i believe my children's death is being used just as much as their life would have been, if not more...

i am sure you meant no harm with your words but for someone who has had to bury 2 children, its an incredibly hurtful comment.

praying for harper...

Anonymous said...

"And we believe with everything in us that she WILL be healed. Because we know that God has the opportunity to show His power and love in that healing. And to NOT answer would be to have the chance to have people lose faith in the power of prayer."

as someone whose babies were prayed over by thousands and *still* died, i find this statement rather appalling. i believe my children's death is being used just as much as their life would have been, if not more...

i am sure you meant no harm with your words but for someone who has had to bury 2 children, its an incredibly hurtful comment.

praying for harper...

Andrea said...

We are praying for you in New England!

Kim said...

Kelly,
Just stopping in to say still praying for you all! Harper is looks just percious even with all those tubes....think how much more precious she will look all dressed up in monogramed dresses and a bow on her head! I can't wait to see those pics. God is good!
Love, Kim

KRISTEN'S PALACE said...

praying for you!!!!!! wish i could drive all the way out there and give you a big hug. Harper is beautiful. God will take care of you Harper.. =)

Anonymous said...

Many prayers being said for your sweet baby girl. Your faith is such an inspiration.

Anonymous said...

Checking in daily and praying for precious Harper

Anonymous said...

I am still praying for your sweet little Harper. She is so beautiful!

Jane said...

praying in SC!

Amy S said...

Your amazing!! That little Harper is so blessed!!! Look at all of these emails- your support system is incredible!! PRAISE GOD!!

You need to rest up and take care-God Bless Amy in Indiana

Angie said...

Knowledge is power! I bet it feels good to know what you're up against today! Let the healing continue. Harper is in my prayers!

Anonymous said...

Kelly, We live in Ohio and just want you to know that we are praying for Harper. I am a friend of Christy's J. and I read your blog on occasion. Harper is beautiful! Seeing her makes 3 years ago seem like a miracle to use as well. Our little Molly was in NICU for 3 weeks and is perfect today. So God will answer all the prayers coming her way and you will have that little precious girl home soon! Praying for all of you!

Sarah said...

You guys along with all of the other families in the NICU are in my prayers.

Elizabeth said...

Praying for you in Kentucky!! I think of you all a lot through the day and how Harper is continuing to improve. Your post delight me and actually end up uplifting me b/c of your demonstrated faith in Him. Stay strong!!!!

Anonymous said...

I found your blog through Kim Wheeler and I immediately started praying for Harper.

My husband and I went through a similar situation almost 3 years ago. We watched our baby girl, Parker, fight for her life at Duke. 20 hours later we let her go home to the Lord.

I know all the feelings you are feeling and if there is anything I can do please do not hesitate to ask me.

I will continue to be praying for Harper and her recovery.

God Bless,
Jessica

Jack said...

Oh the flashbacks -- our first had a similar experience nearly six years ago. He was six weeks early but almost 7lbs, so to see this perfectly healthy-looking but very sick baby was so heart-wrenching. What an introduction to parenthood, huh. Prayers and more sent your way and to all the babies in NICU. Those units are the most amazing places with the most wonderful staff. They truly give our babies their all. Congratulations, she'll be fine (she will) so instead start focusing on yourself; she's where she needs to be, she'll need you and your all soon enough.

Anonymous said...

I just wanted to tell you and your family that I am thinking about you. I found your blog link on Bringing the Rain the day before you gave birth to Harper and I thought you seemed very funny. I hope Harper and all the other babies in the NICU get better. Sending my love- Maura.

Faith said...

I love to see that pic of you and your sweet baby girl. I am still on my knees in prayer for you all.

Love, Faith

Suz said...

I have been praying all day everyday since she was born! I will continue to.. She is so incredibly beautiful! She's a fighter! You have incredible strength, your testimony is amazing Kelly! God bless! please take care of yourself. If you need any help on the Bentonville side, I am more than willing to help in anyway needed!!! Don't hesitate to ask...

Anonymous said...

When I said funny I meant it in a good way like you make me laugh. I like you a lot!

Lindsay said...

I just came across your blog the other day...but your little girl has been in my thoughts constantly since. So many prayers for Harper and for you and your husband! Your attitude and outlook is amazing - so encouraging and inspiring. You guys are amazing...and your little girl is BEAUTIFUL.

Praying praying praying praying...

Katie said...

I'm Rachel Payne Harrison's sister - she's got your link on her blog. Amazing what you guys are going through. How awesome to hear you praise our God through this storm. How you've encouraged me. Please know we are praying for you and your baby and your family and also those other families going through these struggles. Love in Christ! Katie Warren

Eos Mom said...

You don't know me, I came over from Boomama and I'm praying for Harper. My son was in the NICU for 5 days for much smaller issues than you're dealing with but I'm here to tell you, whatever you have to do, you have GOT to take care of yourself, our bodies aren't made to do this kind of exertion right after childbirth. Between going back and forth to the hospital, plus scrambling to Babies R Us (cuz he arrived a month early), I developed very high blood pressure and went to the ER when he was 8 days old and was put on bedrest--and you don't want that, you want to be next to Harper. So take care of yourself, I know it's easier said than done, but try! HUGS

Kathy T said...

Kelly,
I have been following your blog for a few weeks now- It has been such a blessing to me. I have been praying for you and your famiy daily-my Sunday school class has also been praying- Harper is adorable and I have faith and trust in God's healing power. I will be praying for all the babies and families in the NICU.
Kathy
Ogdensburg, New York

Phyllis said...

Praying for your sweet baby and all the other babies in the NICU.
Phyllis in OKC

V said...

We are keeping you in our prayers! I can't imagine what you are going through, but we'll keep you, your family and the rest of the NICU infants and families in our prayers!!!

Anonymous said...

Kelly and Scott-
Here is another chance to "pray it forward".

A tenth grader in Hot Springs was in a 4 wheeler wreck. He was pronounced dead on the scene, but then revived. He made it through surgery in HS and is on his way to LR children's. Please pray for him and his family. His name is Cameron.

Amanda

Kindyland said...

She's a big girl!! How cute. I am praying for you guys even though we've never met. I was one of those people who had NO support when my son was sick. :( It is so very hard. I would love to have a ministry where I went around to NICU's and PICU's all over the country and visited those who had no one. That woudl be awesome.

jenn said...

I have found your blog through my cousin's here in Nashville. I will forward it on to everyone I know.
Your faith is amazing. Litte Harper is one lucky little angel.
My 14 month old and I said a special prayer for your family tonight before bedtime.
Bless you and your family.

Anonymous said...

I ran across your blog Saturday. You all have been in my prayers since then. I went back and read your blogs over the last few years....You have touched my heart with your story and your faith in our Lord! Many continued prayers for Harper, you, your family, and all the other babies in the unit and their families!

Anonymous said...

My heart goes out to your family. I know how hard it is to have a new baby in the NICU. Luckily our son was only there for 2 weeks, but those were the longest two weeks of our lives. It made my husband and I feel so much better knowing that we had so many people praying and thinking of our son Conor, who just happens to be a healthy and happy 6 year old. God has a plan for us all. Ya'll are in our prayers.

Julie

Ashlee said...

Still praying for you all, Kelly. It's great to hear some good news today over on your dad's blog. God is good. I'll keep praying for those baby steps of improvement!

ashlee
ashleemwood@gmail.com

Marlene McGarrity said...

We are all pulling for you and Harper.


*PRAYERS!*

Annie said...

I'm still praying for Harper.

"J" said...

Kelly & Scott....
I just want you to know I'm just now finding out about all this! I do read your blog but I haven't been on it the past week or so!!!! I'm soooooooooooooooooo very sorry to hear you are going through this!!!! I can't get over all the amazing people that have been there for yall!!! Prayer is an amazing thing!!! You know you have God on yalls side!!!

Yall are both so very strong and such an amazing couple!!!

Harper is such a beautiful bundle of joy!!!!

Please know yall are in my thoughts and prayers!!!!

Kelly please make sure you take care of yourself!!! You need to eat and get lost of rest!!!!! I know it's hard but please make sure you do this!!!!!!!

(((HUGS)))
Jeannie

Anonymous said...

Sometimes in our darkest hour, God's love shines bringhtest. I came across your blog and feel it innappropriate to share my story with you during this time but know that God does perform miracles and the power of prayer is AMAZING. All of my blessings to you and your sweet beautiful Harper (Beautiful name too!) I know that He is holding her so closely even when you cannot. So Be not Afraid, He is with you always.

Anonymous said...

Praying.

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