Wednesday, May 09, 2018

Women's Ministry - What is Working?


Today we held a spring luncheon for our women's ministry.  We had a catered lunch and one of our ladies spoke on cleaning out our clutter - lots of very practical tips on getting organized.  It was a lot of fun and we had a great turn out.  

I get a lot of questions on our women's ministry and what we do and what works.  I'm not the Women's ministry leader - Laurie is! But I'm on the ministry council and help run events and I also speak at a lot of women's events.  I always love to see what other churches are doing and what is working.  We do a lot of great things but we sometimes get frustrated with lack of attendance or participation.  We are always trying to find ways to reach women in an impactful way.  

I will share what we do but I would LOVE if you would comment with things YOUR churches do and what has worked and what has not worked.  And what you would LIKE to see? Maybe we can all help each other.  


1.  We offer Bible Studies on Tuesday mornings (usually 3-4 different studies), Monday nights and Sunday afternoons.  We try to give an option for all different women to be able to attend.  

2.  We normally have one to three events a year.  They are either held on a week night or a Saturday morning.  What we have done the last few years is 
  •   Mugs and Muffins - this is a Saturday morning event where we have muffins and everyone brings their own mug for coffee and we have a speaker.  We changed it up this year and did Biscuits and the Bible and served a Biscuit bar (biscuits, ham, jellies, butter, honey) and had a speaker. 

  • Tacos and Testimonies - We serve tacos and have a speaker and then have 3-4 members of our church do their testimonies in short form on film.  We show it before the speaker.   
  • Sweet Retreat - We serve some kind of "sweet dessert" and then have a speaker.  This is usually on a Thursday night.  
3.  We started last year having a few events a year for Single Women.  These can be singles moms,  single women or widows or divorced women.  All ages.  We usually have a catered dinner and childcare and just offer a time of fellowship.  

4.  Our service project is we do a big clothing give away at our church in August before school starts. Families are contacted through the schools and we serve hundreds of families who are able to clothe their families.  It's a huge project that takes a week to set up and tons of volunteers but it's amazing.  We also have prayer teams that meet with the families and pray with them as they wait to shop.  

5.  We also have 2 luncheons - one at Christmas and one in May.  We try to have it so working women can stop in on their lunch hour.  

Our goal is to always make room for all generations.  For single or married.  For working women, stay at home moms, and retired women.  And we want to equip women to know Jesus better above all.  

But women are busy.  Jobs, marriages, kids, grand kids - it can be hard to get them engaged.  So I'm curious - what are you looking for in a women's ministry? Or what would draw you in? Or how would you want to serve? 

Tuesday, May 08, 2018

Mom books

With Mother's Day coming up this weekend - I thought I would share some really great MOM themed books I have read or been reading lately that are great resources.



This is a REALLY REALLY good book on parenting.  I highly recommend it and it came HIGHLY recommended to me by people I respect.  



My Bible Study group just finished this and it was EXCELLENT.  There is a Bible study book also but we ended up just using the book.  If you want to read this alone or if you have a group of friends that need a summer study - y'all this is GOOD! And freeing! We had so much good discussion and tears and laughter as we went through this.  I loved it.  



I just got this so I haven't read it yet but it's high on my summer list.  I know Ruth and I know this will be good.  Just the title alone grabs me in.  As I'm home all summer with kids fighting and getting my house dirty - I think I need this to inspire me. ha! 



I just started this one but it's REALLY funny! It's a great beachy, summer read when you need something funny and a light read.  And it has a foreword by Sophie Hudson who I know many of you know and love! 

Sunday, May 06, 2018

May Day

May Day! May Day! 

This is the busiest time of the year.  We have SO much going on.  School projects, teacher appreciation week, testing, soccer tournament, weddings, field trips and a bunch more.  I'm doing my best to keep up with it all.  


But we only have 16 days of school left.  Which means 16 more mornings.  praise hands! 


I didn't blog at all last week because I just didn't have a lot of time.  We had a special class on world religions on Tuesday by my friend/ pastor Dr. Hutch.  It was SO good. 


We had soccer practice.  


One day while the girls were in gymnastics - I took Will Holden to a local trail/creek to play in.  He had the best time! 


Hollis got student of the week for the second time! So proud of her! 


Our town has a big film festival every year in May.  Celebrities come to town and they play films all over town and they have a fun festival off the square all week.  I took the kids on Friday after school.  


We had a great time.  We got there before it was too crazy.  It gets insanely crowded the later it gets.  


A lot of vendors had booths and were giving out free stuff.  The kids had a blast! 


Will Holden did pretty great at sticking with us.  


We ran into all kinds of friends! That's when our town seems especially sweet and small.  


Bentonville also has a fun event on our square every first Friday of the month.  Our church just started having a tent outside our church.  We are giving out snacks and coffee and water.  It's a great way to get out in the community! 


Saturday Hollis had a soccer game.  The boys had matching AR hats! 


We took the kids back to the creek to play in the afternoon.  WH was so happy.  He got completely wet and we just had to strip him down. 


They love skipping rocks.  


Back 11 years ago before kids, Scott and I spent a lot of weekends taking Dawson on a walk on that trail and then letting him swim in the creek.  We really haven't been back much since the kids came along so it was kind of a full circle moment to be back at "Dawson's Creek" with 3 kids. We would have never dreamed that up 11 years ago.  


Last night the girls had GA's for the last time.  They walked to the square for ice cream.  We are gearing up for another busy week!